AlwAys sTAy oUt oF cRowd

 There are many people out there who want to be "part of the crowd." If you want to be the leader and stand out from the crowd instead, then this article is for you. It's a wonderful feeling to know that you are original and unique. 

Below steps surely make you different,

It is okay to imitate a variety of people in small ways. This is called "inspiration". For instance, you may adopt Jackie Kennedy's habit of speaking softly, Audrey Hepburn's hairstyle, and your best friend's sarcasm (but don't outright imitate her, this is annoying). However, do not buy an item of clothing that one of your friends already owns (another colour is often okay, however). By adopting habits that you truly love, and developing your own interests and personality traits, you will discover your true self.

Adopt outfit ideas from a variety of sources. For instance, your shirt may be influenced by Ralph Lauren's latest collection, while your cool skirt might have been inspired by the 1940's movie you watched. (PS: Dress the way you truly want to, don't get too caught up in being different.)

Find good, positive friends with diverse interests. They will aid you in being more confident. Learn and sift out the positive different things you can learn from them.

Be intelligent. Because if you know everything, you can better decide who you want to be. Be the kid who reads "A Doll's House" and "Gossip Girl". In this way you can develop a fully functional mind of your own, without being unduly influenced by others. At the same time you will learn to know exactly what is it you want.

Keep an open mind and respect other people's differences. Don't reject one clique just to join another. A truly different person is someone brave enough to stand on their own. Someone who has their own backbone.

Remember that self-discovery is an ongoing process. The person you are at 15 is not who you will be at 22, or 49, or 97! Our needs and interests change as we grow older. Things which were important to us then, sometimes don't seem to matter anymore. Wisdom replaces petty ambitions as we learn to grow from ourselves.

Be bold! No need to be an ardent follower. Sometimes it is good to create a precedence and let others follow in your footsteps. This does not entail being arrogant or full of yourself. Being bold should define your strength and attributes as a fully functional and optimistic human being.

And the summary will be---Don't act superior to those who are not different. Many of them truly like the styles they wear and the TV shows they watch. Remember, popular things are popular for a reason. Don't dismiss them, as you may truly love them.

So follow this and feel lyk out of crowd............best of luck.........